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We’ve all heard it – sOur atmosphere attracts your tribe. Meaning that the energy you put into the world is directly reflected in the energies you receive, and that you are open to receiving them.
Let’s be real. Can you think of a time when you spent time with a friend, or talked to someone so frequently that you began to recognize their behavior and sayings? It’s probably safe to say that we all have them at some point, because we humans are programmed to pick up on the energies around us – whether negative or positive.
You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. Think about this. Who do you spend the most time with? Do they always find the good in situations, or do they dwell on the negatives? If you answered with the latter, it might be time to do a self-examination to ensure that the people you surround yourself with lift you up and nurture positivity rather than bring you down and stunt your growth.
Your Vibe Attracts Your Tribe
Well, that’s cool and all, but now what? Everyone’s tribe will be different, and that’s what makes life and our relationships so wonderful. How do you determine and attract the right tribe for you?
Start with yourself
You are uniquely awesome, so identify what’s holding you back from being the best version of yourself.
We challenge you to stand in front of a mirror every morning and identify one thing you love about yourself. It can be physical, emotional or mental and as simple as loving your smile. Say it out loud and sincerely Believe He. She. When you focus on the positives and what you like about yourself, the negatives take their place in the stands.
It’s amazing what can come into your life when you open your heart and feel truly grateful for everything you have – big or small.
We like to start each day with a grateful heart. When you wake up each morning, write down some of the things you are grateful for in life. If you need proof, we love the Gratitude Journal, which can help hold you accountable each day.
Need something simple to get started? How about being grateful that you are able to read this. Yes, it really is that simple.
Get out of your comfort zone
You cannot expect change when you are not actively changing something. There’s just something so fun about doing something that scares you (and doing it like a bada** you). You never know who will be there and if they are a perfect fit for your tribe.
Go ahead and take a dance class, join a side hustle, wear daring cheer-up outfits, and try a new cuisine. Every little part matters.
Be the first to lend a hand
If you meet someone with positive vibes, don’t be afraid to reach out. You never know when someone is hoping to meet you as much as you are hoping to meet them. (Did we mention that midday coffee dates with the girls are simply… Better)
Be honest and listen
Check in with your people. Make sure they are okay. Ask them questions and really listen. Don’t just hear, actually listen. What do they tell you, how can you help them be a better version of themselves? There is an indescribable feeling of happiness when you help others simply out of the goodness of your heart. Humans crave real, genuine relationships, so any relationship that isn’t genuine simply isn’t worth your energy.
When you put our positivity out into the world, it’s almost impossible not to get it in return. Misery loves company, so don’t give the universe a reason to create more negativity.
Mars is all about women and we’ll be the first to say we love it #WhoRunTheWorld. We encourage you to focus on loving yourself and loving your people and all you are blessed with in this crazy thing we call life. Get out there, be bold and take on your tribe, my dear.
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